taming my budgie

Question
Hi, Iv'e had my budgie max for about two months now. I bring him out of his cage at least once a day and he sits with us in his cage while we watch tv, eat dinner etc. Sometimes he's really good when I bring him out and sits on my hand/head etc, but lately he is getting more flustered and will only sit on his cage when I bring him out.  He does not play with his toys much and only sits on his cage when let out. He will not let me hold him and will not come out of his cage on his own accord yet loves having company when we are all home as he chirps away.  I really want him to sit with me and play with me and let me hold him.  How do i train him to not be scared of me? Please help!!

Answer
Hello Lisa! It seems you were getting off to a good start! The most important thing about training budgies is consistently. Even if you miss one day of training, it will make a big difference. Make sure his wings are clipped that way it'll be easier taming him. Heres what you can do,
Bring him into another room, and if he'll stay on your shoulder then he can sit there or if say he walks some where else, let him chill out there for a few minutes and take in his surroundings. Most birds feel more comfortable when near their cage and will want to be near it or in it. So bringing him into a different room eliminates that problem. If you have a sweatshirt with a front pouch then you can put your bird in there. I find it very easy and the bird gets used to being near you. It also makes the bird nice and warm. Gently stroke your birds head and back when hes in the pocket. If you do this once or even twice a day for an hour or so, your bird will be much more comfortable being with you. And when ever you come into the room with treats, call your birds name so he can associate his name with something good. As he gets more used to you, gradually move up to getting him to step up onto your finger. Patience is the key and do not give up. even if your bird isn't as "perfect" as you wanted him to be, he will still trust you and tolerate you holding him and being around. Most people who lack the time and knowledge to do this often end up with a depressed, nasty bird. If you see your keet puff up when you enter the room, that means hes glad to see you and is relieved! offering millet spray, parsley, lettuce, and other treats will bring you two closer. Just remember not to skip a day of training, it will make a BIG difference. good luck!