Affection

Question
I have an 11 month old (1 on October 21st) male Standard Poodle.  I'm sure I'm silly for writing, but I am curious about his behavior.  He is considerably affectionate to other people, licking and hopping around etc. but with me he is more reserved.  He doesn't lick me and chooses the company of our German Shepherd - for instance, when I come home he greets me enthusiastically for about 3 seconds and then he tears after the Shepherd to play again.  If I watch TV or am doing something in one room he is perfectly happy to be in the other room (it is his choice, I would love for him to be with me but he usually walks away and lies down in the other room or in the hall).  He listens to me as far as obedience goes but I was wondering why he seems so unaffectionate...is there anything I can do?

Answer
I would recommend some one on one time with him.  Treat him a lot (bribbery does work LOL).  You could even try puttin ghim on a long leash and hooking the leash to you so that he has to follow you around.  Take him for a drive someplace and just spend time with him just you and him without the GSD.  That should help a lot.  It will take some time so just stick with it.  It may have a lot to do with how he was socialized as a puppy.  If he was socialized to men more than women or vise versa that will sometimes make the difference as to whom he may prefer.  If he didnt get a lot of socialization with people but a lot with other dogs that would explain why he is more attached to your SGD than to you.  Also take him to a training class.  This is something for the two of you to do together and will help increase your bond.  If you are able to take him to work or whereever you go that will help also.  When he greets you when you come home dont let him leave after just a few seconds.  Grab hold of him and rub him make him stay a bit longer.  Gradually he will want to spend more and more time with you.