Mean Cat:/

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QUESTION: Hello, I am going to tell you a backround story of my cat, so that it is more helpful to my dilema.

My cat Koda, is around 6 years old. I got her through an aquaintance at school, but when I arrived to pick her up the house was in extreme conditions from the amount of cats they had. She was the sickest, tiniest kittens of them all, but I insisted on choosing her because of my love for saving animals, and her appearance resembled a cat I loved so much, that my mother gave away when I moved.
She had several health problems that we took care of(worms, immune system, underweight) but we can't seem to fix her bad teeth problem.
Anyway she attatched to me immediately, always by my side, and on my lap. I babied her and loved through my actions as much as I could. As she grew a few months older I noticed her behavior began to change, so I investigated. I found out my younger step brother was abusing her behind close doors when i wasn't home, like playing too rough and hitting her as horrible as it sounds.
I told my parents and he was in so much trouble, but from then on she was devastated, scared and aggresive, and anyone new in the house was even more of a threat. She also started to pee on the carpets, even right next to her litter box.
I'm pretty sure that this was the event that changed her behavior, and 4 years later it still hurts me because I love her so much. I'm just looking for all the advice and help I can get towards changing her behavior. Either way I love her, I just want her to be happy and close to me again.

Thank you

ANSWER: Ashley,

First off, is she spayed?  If not, that is the first order of business. Secondly, is she OK medically.  Sometimes inappropriate urination is a result of urinary tract problems, so a vet check would be in order.

Cats have long, long memories, and she is expecting to be abused again, so she has become defensive.  Cats behave like yours does either because there is a medical issue and they are in pain, or because they have been abused.

I suspect, until she gets out of the present environment in that household, she will be wary of everyone except you.

Best regards... Norm.



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QUESTION: Thank you, I will take her to the vet again, her teeth may be part of the reason because ever since she was a baby they've been in somewhat bad condition. I tried venicin, brushing her teeth, and even meds but I am timid about medications. But this summer I am moving out, so hopefully she'll feel better in that environment. Also, what about getting her a companion? Is that a good idea? I know they are independent but I have seen cats that have another cat always by its side.

Thanks again

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Ashley,

I think your kitty will do much better in a new environment.  I think you can entertain getting a companion, once the dental issues are cleared up.  There are just some cats that have terrible mouths, so you may have to give her extended treatment.

Please let me know what your vet says about the teeth.

Best regards... Norm.