New hamster in the house

Question
Hi:

We are on our third hamster in 2 weeks.  The first dwarf passed away after 6 days, the second dwarf was a quick little guy and my 8 yr. old daughter was afraid it would get away and wanted to take him back for a teddy bear hamster, which we now have had for 2 days.  Question: I have slowly been introducing myself to the hamster and every time I have held it it has nipped me and gone pee on me.  The guy at Petco also said they can bite really hard and do damage.  Now my daughter is a bit afraid of her new hamster.  Any tips on handling, so it won't bite.  We only handle when it is awake, but I am even a bit nervous after the petco guy told us how they have razor sharp teeth..yikes!

Thanks.

Answer
Hi Ann,

    He is scared. When bringing a new hamster home, you should leave him alone for the first few days (just make sure he has food and water, do not try to handle him). This is so he can get used to his new home and surroundings.
    After the few days are up (days 4-6), Stand or sit next to his cage and talk to him in a soft voice. This will help him to get used to your voice and your scent. They will generally stand on their hind legs and acknowledge your presents. Do this off and on through the evening or while he is awake.
    On day 7, while talking to him, put your hand in his cage, make sure he sees your hand so it don't startle him, this is another reason why they bite. (it is important to always wash your hands before handling your hamster because if they smell food on your hands they will think it is food and bite). Let him sniff it and walk on it. Do not try to pick him up at this point. Do this a few times while he is awake.
    On day 8, while talking to him, put your hand in again, let him sniff and walk on it. This time, when he comes to you, try petting him with your finger/s. If he accepts this, then you may try to pick him up. This taming process may need to be repeated. It just depends on the hamster and how fast he gains your trust.
    When you do hold your hamster, it is best to cup on hand over him until he gets used to being handled. This makes them feel more secure and there is less chance of him trying to jump from your hands. Some owners will put on a glove before handling their hamsters until the hamster gets used to them and being handled.
    If you have anymore questions, please write again.

Thank you for writing and best of luck!