how to hold reins

Question
Hello, I have a 24 yr. old gelding QH retired from the team roping circuit, given to me to learn on.  The owner who gave him to me said he's a mature, quiet and well-trained horse.  I agree.  The past 4 years this owner has helped me learn to ride (I was a new rider when I got him)and take care of my "baby" including holding the reins in my left hand only, for neck-reining.  Well, I've since moved to a new barn which has summer clinics (I've joined their summer riding club) and I've received lots of criticism on my one handed reining technique and that my left arm is held out too straight and I keep a knot in the end of the reins (so I don't drop them and lose them which happened to me once in the beginning)  Everything I do is because my friend (the owner) taught me and he was an experienced "cowboy" so I trusted his advice.  NOw I'm in a habit and feel like a loser getting all these other instructors (they have great reputations I hear - well-known)telling me I shouldn't do it that way.  I feel very awkward holding with 2 hands and my horse senses my confusion.  We look like we can't even steer properly anymore.  I used to get compliments on my riding until this clinic.  So who's right?  I'm getting confused and discouraged. Please help me. Thanks. Lori

Answer
Hi Lori :)
Ignore those losers!! These people sound like they have a stick up there booty. It sounds like your doing everything right, but just in case, here is a link with a lot of information on holding the reins. http://www.naturalhorsesupply.com/reins.shtml Don't let those idiots get to you. your cowboy friend did a great job teaching you :)

Kelsey