Questionhow do you tell if its a male or female?
AnswerI would have to know for sure the species. There is no species called the 'red-eye turtle'. If it IS a box turtle, red eyes often indicate males.
You can also not tell the sex on young turtles, so if it is not mature yet, you can't know.
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