Lulu the stray kitten

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QUESTION: Thanks for your answer Ali i will let Lulu stay in the hay barn i am glad it is the right thing for her.
The only problem if she does stay living in there is how do i get her to come out as she either just comes out to go to the loo or sits at the door until she hears something she doesn't like then she runs in.
Should i now be making a hole in the door so she can come and go as she pleases because if im not out with her i keep the door closed and she has no way of getting out herself. I suppose she must be resourceful as she lived to be 6 months without any help from anyone so do i now make a little door for her so she can do what she wants and hope for the best.
Thanks Sue

ANSWER: Sue,

You could install a cat door, but it's possible that Lulu simply wants to live in the hay barn. It's probably not a bad idea to install a litter pan in the barn so that Lulu doesn't have to go out as it seems to cause some distress as shown by the fact that she's reluctant to go outside and only does so when absolutely necessary. All in all it sounds like Lulu has a pretty happy life and she seems to want to live it her way, enjoy her, provide her with all that she needs and nurture the special bond that you obviously have with her.

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QUESTION: Hi Ali,Lulu now wants to be out a lot but this is a problem as if i am not around i keep the hay barn door shut. do you think a cat flap is a good idea or should i make a whole in the door just big enough for Lulu to use.It would be a lot easier and safer if she lived in the house with me and my cats but she seems so settled in the barn i wonder if i will set her back if i bring her in the house.Also she is getting very attached to me should i be trying to get her used to other people as i go on holiday in 4 weeks and i am worried about her.
thanks

Answer
Sue,

For Lulu's sake I think it would be best to install a cat flap, it's hopefully small enough to discourage unwanted critters and allows her the safety and security of knowing that she can come and go as she pleases. As for socializing her with other people I'd recommend starting that immediately in the form of bringing along the people who will be assuming responsibility for Lulu's care whenever possible but especially at feeding times. This will allow her in theory to associate the new people with you and with food which will hopefully minimize her fear and traumatic response when others are caring for her while you're away. You could also consider adding a homeopathic remedy called Bach's Rescue Remedy to Lulu's water starting in a couple of weeks - 5-7 drops per day in a bowl of fresh water should do it. Rescue Remedy is a blend of flower essences designed to calm and reassure, it's used by pet parents and some vets worldwide to treat anxious, abused, traumatized, injured or fearful animals of all sizes and I've found it to be quite effective with skittish cats.