Poodles - selecting

Question
I'm finally getting my first dog. I had a mini poodle growing up and he was the best (except for epilepsy). I can't decide between a standard and mini or what sex. I am single with a house and fenced yard and work 9 to 5.  I want a laid back dog that doesn't need attention 24/7. Not too shy. Marriage and children may be coming soon. I would like a dog that gets along well with my family that visits often and their little kids.  What do I look for in a pup in his litter? Also I have a horse - would be nice if he liked romping with me when I ride on nice weekends.

Answer
Sounds like you have a lot to consider. For temperament as well as the 'romping' you may want to look at a standard poodle.  I've found that they tend to be a little less high strung than many of the smaller of the breed.  This isn't always so, though.  

The most important thing is to make sure the dog isn't bred at a puppy mill environment.  Go visit the breeder's home and see where the pups are kept.  Also avoid pet shops that sell dogs, as they usually get their animals from puppy mills.

Another suggestion, before you try a breeder is go check at your local humane society.  Poodles get turned in sometimes and they usually aren't easily adoptable because the nappy hair is matted.....but they clean up beautifully.

As for the sex, either way I'd suggest neutering as it does tend to settle either sex down....and prevent unwanted animals adding to the overcrowded shelters now.

I prefer females simply because there isn't as much of the territorial stuff going on.  Females don't seem to have as much of a tendency to mark everything (i.e. pee on it).  But not all males are that way.  I have 2 poodles now - a teacup and a toy.  Both were "throwaways".  The male is high strung but he was also in a really bad situation in his first year of life.  The female is a pound pup and has calmed down nicely, although she still will cringe if I move too fast.

It would be best to just visit a few breeders and play with the pups. One will tug at your heart, I assure you. I'd go with your gut.  It usually is correct.  Also I'd suggest checking with a good obedience trainer (for you and the dog) and teach your dog manners from the start.  That will help with family and such.

I do wish you well!!!

Kathryn