Questionhow long in your opinion should it take to train an 8 year old mare that has had two colts, for being able to ride her?
AnswerHi Daniel...
You didn't express your skill level and a lot of missing variables. If you have an 8 year old mare that was never broken to ride - start over --- go find one that is already trained to ride. This 8 year old has had her own way for a long time and I detect you're a novice rider perhaps and not a trainer .... this could be pretty frustrating for all parties concerned. If you do decide to proceed - please enlist the services of a qualified trainer.
Hope this helps
Dee