What dog breed is right for us?

Question
What dog breed is best for us? My new husband wants to adopt a new dog for the family. He is very partial to large, prick eared fuzzy dogs, like Akitas (He very much wants an Akita as he grew up with akitas), siberian huskies, samoyeds etc. Big and fluffy seem to be a key. I've veto'd a lot of his breed choices because I don't feel like they would fit in with our family. We have three other dogs (All golden retrievers) a 4 year old daughter (with plans for other children in the future), a parrot and two cats. We need a dog that is low key in the house, great with kids, great with other animals, affectionate/gentle but not clingy, and enjoys outdoor activity. (We hike, swim, and go for long walks a lot) My husband just wants something different then our needy goldens, and something that is a little more to his tastes (physically and mentally) and my big concern is something that will fit into our family and pack easily. My other concern is that while I have had a lot of experience with different breeds having done animal rescue for several years and feel like I could handle a dominate breed, I am uncomfortable asking the same of my daughter. Any help would be great. Thanks!

Answer
With animal rescue experience, I would expect you not to fall into the trap of expecting all members of a breed to match the breed profile.  I know many Huskies have a high prey drive, not good in a home with cats.  I am less familiar with some of the similar breeds.  As a general rule, I say follow your heart.  If your husband really wants an Akita, it might be best to get one.  I often suggest rescue.  Mature dogs have a more predictable personality and you should be able to find one known to do well with Kids, cats, and other dogs.  

If you get a puppy, check out its parents very carefully.  One thing is if you bring a young puppy, 7-8 weeks, into the home, it should grow up tolerating the others in the house.  An older puppy will still be an unknown, but less adaptable and accepting of your household as it is.