Saying good bye to Spud the Rabbit

Question
Hi,

After a few weeks of illness, my little Spudy died last week, he was around 2 1/2. He had been together with Buttercup for over 2 years and although both quiet independent they were great companions and very sweet with one another. I originally had Buttercup on her own, but after a month I could see she was lonely and that was when I decided to get my little Spud.

He was a darling friend to both of us and is missed incredibly. Buttercup seems to be doing OK but I can see she is lonely and sad. She has taken to sleeping at the end of my bed which is a new thing.

I am booked for a trip to the UK on the 11th of December, which will be less than a month from when we lost Spudy. I am not wanting to rush myself or Buttercup, but I fear leaving her will be too traumatic, do I find her a friend before I leave? She is quiet dominating, is it best to get a baby male or look for a adult male? Buttercup has been spade and I would have a male neuted.

Thanks,

Andrea


Answer
Hi Andrea. I am sorry to hear of your loss of Spud. It is never easy to loose a friend, big or little. I don't know very much about bonding rabbits as I show mine and all are in their own separate cages to keep them in the best condition. However, I am concerned that Buttercup will not accept the new bunny quick enough for them to be bonded before you leave on your trip. It would be very traumatic for both bunnies if they have not settled into a friendship before you go. If you decide to try this now, I think I would choose a young male. He will not be making sexual advances on Buttercup right off and will not be challenging her in any way. Do be careful when you first put them together though. Watch to see that Buttercup doesn't get too aggressive with the new one. I wish you the best with this and if I can help I will always be glad to do so.  Pat