puppies behaviors

Question
I have two puppies and they don't get along with any dog.  They bark at just about anyone, and I can never take them on walks in the afternoon.  So I always have to wake up at 5am before everyone else is awake to walk the two of them.  Once, my puppy Candy actually got off her leash and started chasing after another dog.  It's starting to get complicating.  They bark a lot and it's getting to my neighbors and my family.  My dad says we're going to have to get rid of them if I can't find a way to control their barking.  Any help?  

Answer
This is a tough problem, and I don't have any magic solution.  Doubt you will find one elsewhere, most likely suggestions to wear them out with 3 hour walks.  Likely the puppies are not being aggressive, just wanting to play with the other dogs.  Of course, older dogs don't care for puppy biting play.  

The key to most behavior problems is approaching things using the dog's natural instincts.  Dogs see all the people and dogs in the household as a pack with each having their own rank in the pack and a top dog.  Life is much easier if the 2 legged pack members outrank the 4 legged ones.  You can learn to play the role of top dog by reading some books or going to a good obedience class. A good obedience class or book is about you being top dog, not about rewarding standard commands with a treat. Start at http://www.dogsbestfriend.com/

Here are some other ways to establish your place as top dog:

''Elevation for small puppies:  Sit on the floor and gently put your hands around your pup's middle, below his front legs, and lift him up.  He is facing you.  Hold him for 15 seconds.  Repeat until he no longer struggles.  If he is past 10-12 weeks, lift his front feet off the ground, but don't pick him up.  

Cradling for small puppies:  Hold your puppy gently on his back, as you would cradle a small baby.  If he struggles, hold him firmly until he quiets for 10-15 seconds.  With larger pups, you can do this as your sit on the floor, with your pup between your legs.

Quiet lying down:  Place your pup on the floor on his side, with all 4 legs pointing away from you.  Use your hands on his neck/shoulder area and middle, to hold him in this position.  When he is quiet, praise him.  Lengthen the time that you keep him quietly in this position.  When he accepts this position well, handle his paws and muzzle, while keeping him quiet.''

The quotes mean this isn't my original work.  It is copied from my Puppy Raising Manual.  I have long used these or minor variations of them, and they are very effective.  You may want to give him a belly rub while he is on his back too.  Helps bonding.  There is a big difference between him rolling over and demanding a belly rub, and you choosing a time to roll him over and rub his belly.  The latter cements your place as pack leader.  

Once you are top dog, a hand in front of the dog's face and a stern, but not loud ''Quiet!'' may help more.  I would also suggest walking them one at a time, so you can concentrate on the one dog.  You need to keep its attention focused on you, not other dogs you are meeting.  A snap of the leash, and a ''No, straight!'' when you meet another dog.