Dog, black lab 1 1/2 yrs old

Question
He is an escape artist from everything and causing a lot of stress between my husband and I at home, but our 4 yr old daughter is extremely attached to him.  I am considering finding him a home in the country (we live in town) and replacing him with a small house dog.  The dog is only in his pen 4days a week while we are at work, I take him for a walk every morning and evening, he is in the house with us and goes everywhere with us.  Any ideals on how to explain to my daughter that we are going to find a new home for him or how to keep him contained?  Is it to late to put him in a large kennell for the day?

Answer
I am not even going to touch explaining to the 4 year old why he has to go.  If it comes to that, talk about it being safer for him.  I am sure she is upset every time he gets away.  

By a large kennel, do you mean inside the house?  All day is a long time, but a 1 1/2 year old should manage.  He should also adjust to it fairly well.  This is a much easier question, I even have standard material to paste in about that.

It is only natural that a puppy resists its crate at first.  What the puppy
wants more than anything else is to be others, you, anyone else in the
household, and any other pets.  In our modern society, even if we are home,
other things distract us from the attention an uncrated puppy must have.   The
only real solution is to crate the dog when you aren't around.  The dog may be
happier in its den than loose in the house.  It relaxes, it feels safe in its
den.  It rests, the body slows down reducing the need for water and relieving
its self.  Dogs that have been crated all along do very well.  Many of them
will rest in their crates even when the door is open.  I think the plastic
ones give the dog more of a safe, enclosed den feeling.  Metal ones can be put
in a corner or covered with something the dog can't pull in and chew.  Select
a crate just big enough for the full grown dog to stretch out in.

Leave it some toys.  Perhaps a Kong filled with peanut butter.  Don't leave
anything in the crate the dog might chew up.  It will do fine without even any
bedding.  You will come home to a safe dog and a house you can enjoy.

A dog that has not been crated since it was little, make take some work.
Start out just putting its toys and treats in the crate.  Praise it for going
in.  Feed it in the crate.  This is also an easy way to maintain order at
feeding time for more than one dog.

The "shut the puppy in a safe room" is a fallacy.  Very few houses even have a
safe room.  How many of us have a room with a hard surfaced floor and nothing
else?  Most rooms have electrical cords to chew if nothing else.  In addition
to destroying anything a bored puppy finds to chew, it may choke or have
intestinal  blockage from the pieces.  I had a friend that left her dog in a
"safe" room.  It ate a hole in the floor covering.  The safe rooms fail to
give the dog the comfort of the enclosed space their instinct requires.  Nor
do they restrict activity extending the time the dog can go without relieving
itself.