Extremely shy cat

Question
I recently adopted a cat from an animal shelter, and she is the most shy cat I've ever seen. She seems to be scared of everything and I'm having trouble getting her to eat. I'm getting a little concerned because shes not drinking either. Should I try to help her eat or let her go, and eventually she'll realize how hungry she is on her own?

Answer
Brian,

It's usually best to adopt 2 cats at the time. They provide security, companionship, and comfort for each other.

Your cat is scared. She was suddenly put in a totally new world with nothing familiar, new people, new routine, and she is probably grieving for her friends or littermates. Give her time to acclimate and get to know you and her new home. Be patient and understanding. Plus you don't know what traumas and experiences she went through before you got her.

It's best to keep a cat in one room for about a week with a litter box, food, and water. A whole house at once can be overwhelming. She will come out as she feels comfortable. Don't try to rush her. Spend time in a room with her talking to her gently, but not trying to pet her or touch her. Let her learn to trust you.

She may have had a feral parent. Ferals are not like domesticated house cats and will not behave like one. To learn more about the behavior and how to deal with ferals, in the search box on this site type Tabbi Ferals for information.

It will work out with patience and time. Don't try to force her. It may take a month or more for her to come out of her shell.

Tabbi