what is the best way to care for a grieving pet

Question
QUESTION: Our sweet  and 1/2 yr. mini schnauzer had to be put down over the weekend due to many many complications.  There was nothing we or 3 vets  could do. It was a huge surprise with very little time to say good-bye.  We have a 2 and 1/2 yr. old mini. schnauzer who seems to be feeling sad.  She sleeps on his bed and lays around - how can I be sure she is okay?  We are giving her a lot of attention but we (especially me) are very sad also.  Does she pick up on our vibes - do I need to fake it - am I making her feel worse?  Any advise would be helpful - thank you!

ANSWER: I am really sorry to hear about your little dog. Your mini Schnauzer will feel sad for a while just as you will. They miss their little buddies just as we do.
You cannot 'fake' it because they pick up on your underlying emotion anyway.
It takes time for all of us to grieve and the time should just be allowed to unfold.
You are doing both you and your dog a favor by loving her up.
She will start feeling better after a while, as will you.
As long as she is eating and drinking, and eliminating normally, just give her time.





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QUESTION: thank you so much for your quick response - I wonder one more thing - should we get rid of his bed or should we continue to let her sleep on it?  If so, I'm afraid if I ever wash she will lose her connection.  I just want to do what is best for her right now.  I'm sorry if this is trivial again I don't want to hurt her more unintentionally.
thanks again!

Answer
No, just let her sleep in it. What harm is there in that? She won't lose her connection but if it is a comfort to her let it be. My dog Annie Mouse was 7 when my Cameo died and she has slept in her bed ever since.
I let her be in it for months afterward and just washed it when it was time to wash it. She was depressed for about a month but slowly came around and now she is very close to me.
It is not trivial and I am glad you asked.
Many hugs to both of you.