WIERD BEHAVIOR

Question
I HAVE A 2 YR OLD BORDER COLLIE.HE IS VERY AFFECTIONATE.HE SLEEPS ON THE BED AT FIRST,THEN GOES TO THE FLOOR.HE IS VERY SMART . THE OTHER DAY MY 11YR OLD DAUGHTER WAS ON THE BED SHE WENT TO GET KISSES FROM DOG AND HE BIT HER. THIS HAS HAPPENED TWO TIMES BEFORE BUT NOT ON THE BED.HE HAS NEVER WENT AFTER ANY ONE BEFORE EXCEPT HER.  

Answer
Dear Steve,
Thanks for the note. It is not uncommon for dog to bite a child when the child is trying to love or interact with the dog. Unless we know a bit about dog behavior and teach our children some basic rules, children will naturally interact inappropriately with dogs.

We (people and dogs) have two very different communication systems and misunderstandings can contribute to problems. For instance, dogs don't kiss - they lick. (smile) Although we might equate the behavior with affection, it is not normally so.

In dog language (all body language, no words), leaning over, direct eye contact, hugs and kisses and other personal space intrusions can be considered threats. It depends on the dog, the family, and the relationship between them. Some dogs tolerate these 'threats', some might learn to like them - but often only on their terms.     

So this is the third incident? That's a huge red flag. I'm glad you wrote to me. Knowing you need help is the first step (very big smile)!

Please review the contexts in which your dog 'went after' your daughter and avoid them. Supervise all their interactions.

Is your dog trained? Obedience training teaches you and your dog how to communicate with each other. If not, contact a trainer. http://www.apdt.com  

Regardless of the path you choose, you will need to change your behavior (if you want your dog to change). Read this article about Changing the Owner-Pet Relationship.

http://www.vin.com/VINDBPub/SearchPB/Proceedings/PR05000/PR00470.htm

Happy Training!
AT
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