Not so long ago I have fallen in love with one of charming girls and have wanted to find any articles in Internet how I could get acquainted with her.
I have found a lot of articles and blogs,but basically found only laudatory speeches about themselves and about advantages of their e-books and programs.
I have begun to search deeper,on 100th pages and further and at last my searches have crowned by success.
In my opinion it is interesting article:
The Magic of Flirting
Flirting is the way most people determine whether or not a member of the opposite sex is interested in them. Following is a quick outline on how you should go about the complex, sometimes fun, sometimes not so fun, task of flirting. It all beings with your approach.
The Approach
One person approaches the other. They move into closer physical proximity. This much is clear: NO approach equals NO possibility of initiating contact. You must approach!
Example: A woman sits down next to a man in a coffee shop, or a man stands near a woman in a dance club. This is the first step. Once you approach, you begin looking for the signs.
The Signs
The person who has been approached will always signal the other's presence in some way?a sign. This signal is not like a train whistle, however, more a subtle body language which you can learn to recognize. For example, he or she simply may look up, move over to make room, nod slightly, or signal with a glancing eye contact.
A display of total obliviousness to the one who is approaching generally indicates lack of interest altogether. Don't be discouraged. But if the one you approached shows absolutely no interest, then it's time to re-group and try again. But let's say the approach works. You have your positive acknowledgement, now what? Time to talk
The Verbal Exchange
The two people may then engage in a mild verbal exchange about impersonal, unimportant matters such as the weather or the scene around them. The key word here is MILD.
This is the classic place for the clever "line," but cleverness is not required. At this point, a verbal exchange is not for the purpose of sharing valuable insights about life or determining philosophical compatibility. It is just a vehicle to further the developing contact.
Examples: Verbal overtures might include anything from "please pass the pickles" to "your looking great tonight", to "have you seen the waitress?". Without some form of verbal response, it is highly unlikely that the next step will occur. Let's say all is going as planned. Time for body language.
Body Language
Over a period of time, a couple that has begun to talk may also begin to orient themselves physically to one another, to turn toward one another until, if all is goes well, they are fully facing one another. This is your goal.
This step can take minutes or hours . . . or weeks or months . . . to achieve. Yet, without this physical reorientation toward one another, not very much can ever happen, so give up on people who turn their back toward you for long periods of time! But if they don't?
Touching
The woman or the man (most often the woman) touches the other in a light, fleeting way. Examples: A couple might accidentally brush their hands against one another while reaching for a drink, or the woman might pat the man on the arm in the middle of a shared joke.
The exchange of very subtle, almost glancing touches may continue for some while, and if all goes well, can escalate into the casual affections shown by couples who are dating. If you've reached this point, then flirting has now become the beginning of a relationship.
The Art of Flirting should always end with the beginning of a relationship. Now get out there and flirt.
The Art of Flirting is really the Art of making first contact. You only have one shot at making a great first impression. By following some of the guidelines we've established in this article, you should now be equipped to locate, approach, and ascertain whether or not your subtle flirting has opened the doors to a new and exciting relationship.
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There there is a lot of other interesting articles and not only in this theme, but also in many other things - from acne up to policy.
After that happened with me and while I yet had not a acquaintance with this girl, me began to interest any devilry. For example, interpretation of dreams. I think those,who is enamoured,not knowing how to get acquainted,start to search too in dreams any signs.
I could not find necessary articles and at last only on 100th pages I have found that I need.
Here one of them:
Dreams interpretation
The meanings of dreams are as personal and unique as the people who dream them.
No one interpretation, no matter how universal, will apply to every dream, dream symbol or dream situation.
When analyzing or interpreting a dream, it is always important to pay attention to the details of the dreams, your feelings within the dream world, and of course, what is going on in your own life.
If you do wish to interpret your dreams, either purely for fun or to pursue personal and spiritual growth, there are a few pointers that will help you get the most from your dream world.
As you awaken, immediately replay the dream scenario in your head. It is important to do this immediately, preferably before you even open your eyes.
The dream world slips away quickly, and as much as 50% of it can be gone in a mere five minutes. By the time ten minutes has passed, more than 90% of the dream's contents may be lost.
Replaying the dream in your head will help you remember more of those tantalizing details.
Immediately write down a description of the dream, focusing on key objects, symbols or feelings. Write a few words about each key element in the dream quickly, before they are forgotten, they go back later and fill in the gaps.
Again, it is important to write your dream down as quickly as possible. Keeping a notebook by the bed will be a big help.
Choose a quiet place in your home to begin your interpretation process. Cutting yourself of from sources of distraction will be very important.
The space you choose should be as quiet and peaceful as possible. If no such space is available, review your notes a final time, fill in any details you can remember, and come back to them later.
Use your intuition as you review your dream notes and try to make sense of your dream. You may already know on an instinctual level what your dreams are trying to tell you. Connecting with your intuition can help you connect with your unconscious mind.
If you meditate, a short meditation session can often be a big help. Connecting with your inner self is always a huge help when it comes to interpreting and analyzing dreams.
As you review your dream notes, pay close attention to the emotions they stir in you. Paying close attention to your emotional state, both at this moment and during the dream, can help you to understand what your dream really meant.
Think very carefully about any vivid details, situations, locations, sensations or symbols that make the dream memorable. Open your heart as well as your mind and carefully explore the possible meaning of each symbol, situation and event.
It may be helpful to jot down the impressions in your dream journal or notebook. As you search for meaning, don't limit yourself to obvious interpretations. For instance, dreaming about a missed appointment could simply mean you are worried about being late for work,
but that missed appointment could also symbolize a feeling of missed opportunity in your life.
Running an inner dialog with the people or objects you dreamed about is often helpful as well. This inner dialog is especially useful when trying to determine why you dreamed about certain people.
Try asking them in your head "why am I dreaming about you?", "what are you doing in my dream?".
It is also helpful to know that often people in our dreams are symbols of aspects of our own personality instead of literal people.
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I have decided it is useful for acquaintance with girl to know something about humour and I have found in one of these sites a set of articles about humor.
For example:
About Irony
There are in fact several forms of irony. Sadly, for those people who mix and match these concepts - sarcasm is not one of these forms.
The difficulty is that sarcasm is 'usually' said in an ironic way, but this is not always the case. In short, it is possible to have either sarcasm or irony without having the other.
Going back to my original example where I fell over, if you had mocked me and said 'Gee - you're co-ordinated today', that would be sarcastic because of the scornful snigger.
But as you will remember from above it is also defined as irony. However, if you had mocked my poor mishap by saying 'Gee - aren't you unco-ordinated', then you will have lost the touch of irony and simply descended to the lowest form of wit - sarcasm.
So in essence irony can be misunderstood as sarcasm because the two concepts do overlap. Sarcasm must have the mocking or sneering tone, and the confusion therefore arises because so often sarcasm occurs when making ironic statements which are positive when clearly something negative is intended...etc.
For this purpose it might be needed to know about flowers,how to organize funny party,about cruise to invite girl to travel.It is not bad idea - to photograph the girl and to give to her her photo,therefore I have looked in the same place the item "photography",that I could do a qualitative snapshot.
No so bad to have good sport shape,so I have looked at item of bodybuilding to be engaged in physical exercises about which I have read at site of bodybuilding.
Look at these sites below.There is a lot of useful information there.
